Saturday, December 12, 2009

Playing with Grandma and Grandpa

Ideas abound for quality time with grandchildren, but pace yourself. Know that time spent together in a home that offers security, peace and love is better remembered than any outing.

Children of all ages love exploration, and you needn’t go far. Rummage in your attic or garage for memorabilia, old clothes, hats and jewelry to dress in for tea parties or story time about the family. Serve up photo albums and scrapbooks with punch and cookies and you have an event to remember.

Explore nearby parks and begin collections. Identifying and displaying rocks, leaves, flowers and even bugs is educational and fascinating for even the youngest scientist. Don’t forget a picnic basket filled with snacks and drinks, a kite if it’s windy, fishing poles if there’s a creek and a wagon for those who get tired.

Investigate your neighborhood library. Apply for library cards (Having one makes children feel so grown up), and sign up for story or show time (sometimes conducted by costumed storytellers). Check out stacks of books and the library’s free videos and cassettes.

Search the countryside for working farms that let children milk cows or feed chickens, roadside markets that allow picking fruit or vegetables, and zoos that encourage petting the animals.

Hunt through and kitchen-test recipes. Then “write” a family cookbook. Pepper it with family anecdotes and decorate it with photos of the kids cooking and their drawings of the experience.

For more activity suggestions and information about raising grandchildren, visit www.cyberparent.com. Also read Vicki Lansky’s books 101 Ways to Make Your Child Feel Special, 101 Ways to Tell Your Child “I Love You”, 101 Ways to be a Special Dad and 101 Ways to be a Special Mom.

There is nothing more fun than to play with the grand kids. Most of them think just going to Grandma and Grandpa's is pretty magical, so you're off to a great start.

1 comment:

  1. Taking your grandchildren places can be fun but is often overrated. When mine come to visit, we mostly stay at home. I try to avoid turning on the TV. We go for walks, play games, visit the park and put together puzzles. None of these costs money, and all of them will make you tired in a good way, not tired the way you get when you've been fighting traffic and crowds all day.

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