Saturday, September 19, 2009

Living Agelessly 

 

by Linda Altoonian      

 

     Last week, I told you that I would be making changes over the next six months, beginning with my belief that turning 60 is the beginning of the end. Well…I’m trying mightily, but even if I completely change my attitude about 60 being old, the reality is that I look and feel older. 


     I don’t have the energy or stamina I once did. In fact, just thinking about what I once packed into a day makes me tired. In addition to attending school, taking care of a home and working, I modeled in my teens and twenties, chased babies in my thirties, led exercise groups in my early forties, and danced whenever someone put on music. I was constantly in motion, and I loved it. Exercise was naturally built into my every moment.        


     In my fifties, I sat down: in front of a computer screen to write my column and my book, at a desk to grade my student’s papers, and in chairs at various social and business functions. 


     To becoming more sedentary, I had added a couple of major surgeries, a problem with my knee, and thyroid disease. I had good reason for packing on pounds, but the rational did not ease the discomfort or the associated problems, and exercise, one of the solutions, had become a chore that I had to add to an already too full day. Taking a power nap became far more attractive than doing sit-ups with a power ball.        


     What was the resolution? Well, at least until I wanted to exercise again, I needed to find a way to consume fewer calories because I was doing less physically, and I had to burn the ones I did consume more effectively.   My research suggested that an easy way to begin was with deeper breathing. Well...I knew I could do that!


     In my book, Living Agelessly: Creating a Lifestyle for Midlife and BeyondI say, "Because breathing is primarily an involuntary activity, we often take it for granted. That is a terrible mistake. Most of us use only 10% or so of our total lung capacity, which upsets the ideal balance of gases in the blood stream by preventing the removal of harmful substances. 


     Taking in more oxygen helps cleanse our body of a variety of waste products, including carbon dioxide. Storing toxic substances that should be eliminated from the body can diminish mental clarity, lower vitality, and increase anxiety. In addition, fast, shallow breathing can cause sleep disorders and exhaustion, stomach upset and gas, muscle cramps, chest pain, dizziness, and increased heart rate and blood pressure. Some people, who think they may have heart disease, may actually be experiencing the effects of breathing improperly.   


     Shallow or “chest” breathing doesn’t allow oxygen to reach the lower part of the lungs and fully saturate the blood’s capacity to hold oxygen. As a result, you breathe more rapidly, which can increase blood pressure and pulse rate. Your organs must work much harder to increase the level of oxygen in the blood. Over time, this pattern can damage your lungs and heart, diminish your energy, and increase your stress level.   


     Karen Van Ness developed the following exercise, to increase “lung capacity and power, to strengthen the entire torso, and to promote the unobstructed flow of internal energy that may have been blocked because of systemic stress.”   She also suggests, “performing these exercises when you first wake up to get rid of the stale air and mucus that has formed through the night, and to break through the wake-up doldrums and ramp up your energy level.”   

Step 1: Lie on your back with arms and legs extended and relaxed. Begin to inhale and exhale smoothly and deeply to the following count: Inhale for 4, hold for 2, Exhale for 6.   

Step 2: To help make sure you are inhaling and exhaling as deeply and completely as possible, place the palm of one hand on your lower abdomen, about two inches below your navel. As you breathe, think of inhaling into this point, and exhaling from this point.   

Step 3: Once you have the basic breathing pattern down, add this visualization: 

With the Inhalation:  Imagine clean, white, healing, purifying air entering first your lungs, then your entire body. The air is sparkling with energy. With every breath, you pull more of that energy into you.

With the Exhalation:  Imagine a gray, black cloud of negative energy, toxins and impurities are being expelled from your body.

     As you continue to breathe, feel and see your body becoming cleaner and more energized as you take in clean air and sparkling energy and force out impurities, toxins, and negative energy. Your body becomes filled with healing blue air—like the relaxing beautiful blue of a clear sky on a perfect day.

     At this point, you should feel relaxed but energized and ready to take on the day. Mentally rehearse your goals or objectives for the day immediately after completing this exercise. See yourself achieving these goals and taking any obstacles in stride.”

     

     I'm going to begin doing this exercise every morning before I get out of bed. I will also track its impact. Will I feel better, more refreshed and more capable of achieving the goals of the day? I'll let you know   next week.

Saturday, September 12, 2009



Living Agelessly

by Linda Altoonian




I’m a babyboomer who has recently turned 59½, just six months shy of sixty. The only other impending birthday I was this concerned about was when I turned 30. Not to be able to say I was in my twenties anymore just felt awful.



In my twenties, I also remember thinking that 60 was very old, and in those days, it was. Sixty-year-olds were gray, more sedentary, and often retired from work and active lifestyles. The babyboomers have changed all that. We are a stubborn group—insisting on the best life has to offer at every juncture and refusing to behave as any generation before.


We dye our hair and have plastic surgery, consume healthier food, antioxidants and supplements to reduce weight and increase energy, and exercise to keep toned and pain free. We look and feel younger.


So even if 60 sounds old to you, like it still does me, the reality is that today’s 60 is yesterday’s 40, and it is possible to age with far more power and success than ever before, if you just know how.


You might be asking who I am to give advice about aging. In addition to first hand experience with the process, I cared for both my parents for the last five years of their lives. During that time, I learned about the medical, financial, legal and social problems associated with growing older, getting sick and passing away. It was a difficult and sad time in my life, but ultimately uplifting and gratifying.


It was also educational. I learned how to be better prepared than my parents were, and I began to do what I was learning, and my life improved. It’s not perfect, but it’s getting better every day.


I also decided it was critical to share the information I learned with others in my situation. Because I’m a journalist, I began writing a column about the subject of growing older. It was a write-in column called Dear Ageless that appeared weekly in many papers around the country and on the wire service for over five years.



Ultimately, I wrote a book about the subject called Living Agelessly: Creating a Lifestyle for Midlife and Beyond. It’s full of great tips, many resources, websites and phone numbers of those who can help you further. You can visit Amazon.com for reviews and purchase, or my website http://www.dearageless.com/.


It has been a rewarding journey so far, not just because the information has been helpful to others, but because the aging process doesn’t end until our last breath, and so I still have much to learn about the subject and much to do to improve my own life.


This blog will be dedicated to sharing what steps I’m taking to improve my health, my outlook, and my life. I am starting with a change in attitude about the age 60. I am going to stop thinking that it is the beginning of the end. That may not sound like a lot, but there is great power in our thoughts.



Remember this:


Watch your thoughts;
They define your words.
Watch your words;
They define your actions.
Watch your actions;
They define your habits.
Watch your habits;
They define your character.
Watch your character;
It defines your destiny.